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Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Something Must Be Terribly Wrong

Wow, you are so weird!
Something must be wrong up there.


   Growing up, I was really curious of almost everything and I was very persistent in getting an answer. I always go to my parents to ask why what how when and where. This is probably one of the things that I still haven't outgrown until this very moment- although most of the time now, I seek for an answer on my own rather than asking other people about it.

  I am the type of person who constantly craves for new information. I never really want to stop learning. I'd go back to school in a heartbeat if given the chance, I'd travel the world to see and learn what the school failed to teach me, I'd do an extensive research about things I am really curious about. Most of the time, when I see or hear something I am not familiar with, I usually spend the entire night researching about it.

   I remember being told by the panelists during my Thesis Defense in College, "Your work is well researched. We have nothing to ask anymore because everything that we need to know and more is already written in this 200-page thesis." Yup! That's definitely my work. I could say I used this "odd behavior" to my advantage. I've read about almost EVERYTHING related to my topic and even the ones which are not directly related but is kind of borderline related to it.

   After grad, I kind of ventured on the world of Fashion. I was so curious about what it feels like to have a job that feels like a dress-up game Adult Life Edition. My curiosity led to joining various Fashion events and competitions.

  Just recently, I finished one korean drama in less than 48 hours. I suddenly had an urge to learn Korean because of one simple thing: I find it so annoying to read subtitles. So I downloaded e-books and learning materials about the language and searched for online courses, too.



  There were many other occasions that my obsession for knowledge was taken negatively by other people. I have been getting acrid remarks (sometimes even backhanded ones- which I find more insulting) for having such behavior. Then I realized, maybe that is what's wrong with the society.

  People who constantly crave for knowledge often gets derogatory remarks from other people. Maybe people stopped craving for it despite "it" being a natural behavior because others think it's uncool. Kids these days would rather do something "fun and crazy" rather than stick around for one more lesson because that is what they consider as "cool" nowadays. People who know so much about different topics are often labeled as "nerds" and they make them feel "weird"about it.

  People should just let them be. We just chose to learn differently- and we like it that way There's nothing wrong about learning. Learning never stops anyway. Go out of the house and you'll see many different things each day and learning something from it is inevitable- the brain processes a lot of information every single second and some of it is probably new to you. Knowledge doesn't always come from books, you know. . So before you call me weird or tell me something must be wrong up here where my brain is, ask yourself if you're any different, because if you tell me you haven't learned anything new these past few days then you must be doing something really wrong- better check if your brain is still up there honey. ;)


Friday, February 14, 2014

Random Thought of the Day: Valentine's Day is not just for Couples

And Valentine's Day is not supposed to be the only time where people get to express their love for one another.
But sadly, people nowadays need a reason to tell someone they love them.

Today, I've decided to do something for a change. I didn't greet anyone a happy valentine but rather, I wrote down all the reasons why I love them and why they are special to me. I am not giving these out today, though. I want to personally hand it to them so whenever I bump with any one of these people, I'll give them a handwritten love letter. It might be a little awkward at first but they'll appreciate it for sure.

We often forget to thank these people for all the things they do for us. There are times that we forget to tell them we love them, too. One thing that makes me sad the most is hearing all the good words people could've told their loved ones every single day but rather waited for their last goodbye.

I'm posting snippets of some of the letters I wrote for you guys to see (and for the whole world to know how thankful I am for these people)

"I will forever be thankful for every pain and struggle you've had to endure for the past twenty one years just to keep me alive. I am aware of all the times I unintentionally broke your heart but thank you for continuously loving me with all the tiny pieces. I owe my life to you (and God, of course). I promise that where ever life takes me, I will always bring with me all the values you have instilled deep in my heart and always be grateful of the person I have become with your help and with God's grace. I love you. Words are not enough to describe how much I love you so let this be known through my actions."



"My superman, you have always been there to rescue me whenever I am in trouble. Thank you for all the times you wiped away my tears whenever I get my heart broken. I know I never told you this before but I will never forget that one time you messaged an ex-boyfriend to leave me alone because
he's hurting me too much already- not because I am mad for what you did but because I am thankful. Had you not done that, I would probably be stuck in such a dragging slash heartbreaking relationship. And I'm really sorry for taking it negatively (at first) and for not understanding why you did such thing but everything is clear to me now. Thank you. Thank you. I love you so much, brother, and I am sorry for all the times I made you sad because of my poor decisions."



"I am sorry for giving up on you, I am sorry that I took you for granted. For the past four years, you have become a sister to me and never have I imagined that it will come to this. I am sorry. I really wish we could still patch things up- talk about it, forgive, forget, and get over it like nothing really bad happened between us but I know it's not that easy. I still love you, girls. And I miss you everyday. Let's not fight anymore, please :-("



"My cheng, thank you for everything. Thank you for staying in my life. Although we never called each other 'bestfriend', you have undeniably played that part really well. I know that our friendship is something that I could hold on to for the rest of my days. I love you so much and thank you."


 "My best guy friend. I never told you this but thank you for staying with me despite witnessing my downfall. I have been through the lowest of lows yet you remained to be that one thread that's keeping me from falling. Thank you for holding on to me like I am an important part of your life. I hope you know that YOU ARE very important to me and I honestly could not afford to lose you."


"My ultimate bestfriend, Patricia. It's been 7 years since we became friends, half the time we were thousands of miles apart but our friendship stood tall on solid grounds. Thank you for always being there (although not physically) to smack me on the head whenever I am thinking of stupid things and thank you for sharing with me the joy of having a friend like you. I will forever love you like my own sister. You may not be here with me right now but you never failed to make me feel as though you were just one jeepney ride away."



That is all, readers! I hope I inspired you to do something for your loved ones. Valentine's Day is not only for your boy/girlfriend. It's a day of love, so spread it! Tell everyone you love how much you love them. Cmon now, it's not that hard!